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Dear Kaz,

My boyfriend is always going on about gold diggers and says all women are just after a man’s money. When we eat out, he lays it on extra thick and I feel pressured into paying the whole lot every time. I’ve been with him six months and he’s been very much a penny pincher the whole time. He never pays his way and always says that he is short of cash or that he left his wallet at home. I’m beginning to feel a bit used.

Two weeks ago, he took me out for a meal for the first time ever as it was my birthday, only when we got to the restaurant he ordered 1 curry and 1 rice only and he ate the bulk of it. I was famished afterwards! When I suggested a glass of wine, he baulked at the idea and snapped “No! We will have tap water!”

He scoffed the food in 5 minutes’ flat, then we went back at his and he spent the rest of the night on the computer.

He doesn’t work so I suggested he get a job, but he says he’s too busy to get a job as he’s trying to set up a gambling website. 

Am I being taking for a ride.

Lucy, 29, Birmingham

It seems to me that Mr Tighty Tight Wad thinks he is onto a good thing here. Perhaps he feels he has a kind and lovely girlfriend, who will fund his existence, so that he never needs to put his hand in his pocket ever again. How attractive to a woman!

It’s possible that he has had a problem with women trying to use him for money in the past, but he needs to be mature and realise that you are your own women and that he can’t keep blaming you for his bad decisions in the past. He needs to pull his head back out of the past and see what he has now and appreciate you.

Not many women would put up with being a man’s personal ATM and this man needs to grow some pride, a pair of balls and act like a man!

Tell him your concerns and ask him why he is making references to gold diggers. Either he does have a deep-seated issue that he needs to deal with, or he is manipulating you and playing on your kindness.

If it’s the latter, I think you need to lay your cards on the table and tell Mr Tighty that a relationship is a two-way street and should not rely on one partner funding it. If he doesn’t like that, give him his bus fare home and delete his number. 

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