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Dear Kaz,

I am a bisexual guy and I’m dating a man and a woman simultaneously. They both know about each other and it’s fine because neither relationship is that serious. Well, until last the weekend when her and I got cuddly and cosy in front of the fire and talked about our dreams for the future. We share so many of the same feelings and dreams and I thought perhaps it was destiny, that I was meant to be with her. I kept quiet as I haven’t decided yet. Then on the Sunday my boyfriend hinted at me moving in with him.

I suppose my problem is that I am getting towards a point where I will have to choose between them and I can’t decide as they are both awesome people. If I ham being completely honest, the sex with my boyfriend is so much more raw and wild, but emotionally, I am more drawn to her.

Also, I’m worried about what my family will think as she is Asian and I think they would hate me to be in a gay relationship, or to date a non Christian woman.

What should I do.

Gavin, 29, Manchester

Dear Gavin,

I suggest you do nothing until you have given it a lot of thought. You are concentrating too much on other people, instead of thinking what you think will make you happy in the long term. Take a break away from everything, spend a few days on your own and decide what makes you happiest in life.

I wouldn’t choose a relationship based purely on hot sex as that will eventually fizzle out. Of course, I’m not saying you shouldn’t choose your boyfriend if you have plenty of mutual interests outside of the bedroom, I’m merely stating that there must be an emotional connection for a relationship to stand the test of time.143 Sex Toys | Soho Sex Shop | Sex Catalogue

Picture yourself in 5 years’ time. What will you be doing? Who do you see yourself doing them with? Go with your gut instinct, it will never lie to you.

I know you are concerned about what you family will think, but when you decide what you are going to do, sit down and explain to them how important it is to you. If they see how happy living your life the way you want too makes you, they will come around eventually.

I also admire your honesty and the fact you are mature enough to realise that you may need to make a choice at some point, if things become serious with either partner.

Look within and decide what makes you happy, then you will find your answer.

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