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Christmas is fast approaching, are you prepared? Is the turkey stuffed and the presents under the tree? Christmas can bring up many feelings from joy to despair, but for some, it can bring up other things as well.  

I had a letter the other day from someone who finds Christmas an even extra chore as they are turned on by Father Christmas. This can, of course, make the festive period exciting but also very frustrating as everywhere they turn they see a jolly fat man dressed in red.

Dear Dr Decadence

I find this time of year to be quite frustrating and confusing for me. I don’t know if anyone else has this particular fetish as I am quite embarrassed about talking discussing it. The thing is, my fetish is the festive season or at least the most commonly used image over Christmas. I fancy Father Christmas! I have fantasies about sitting on his lap, being put across his lap and spanked for being a naughty boy. Is this normal? I can’t walk into a department store without feeling the blood rushing to my pants at the sight of all the Santas.



Hi T,

So reading this letter bought up a lot of thoughts for me, how someone’s fetish can affect their whole lives, especially if the object of their affection is quite innocuous and something that is seen regularly throughout their day to day life. When you have to come across what your desire most in public places it can make for quite uncomfortable and embarrassing situations. Fantasising about a fictional character is quite normal and tame, what makes this one slightly different is that this fictional character comes to life for 4 weeks every year. If T has a significant other then I would suggest investing in a Santa suit and having some festive fun.

Whatever your plans on Christmas Day, we at Decadence HQ wish you all the kinky best for the festive season.

Make sure to get your club and party reviews coming in, tell the world which are the best and worst swinging and BDSM venues that you have attended. Maybe you have found a hidden gem or have been disappointed by a well-known location, either way, tell the rest of the community.

Right then party people, until next time – stay decadent!


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